In 'The Sensual Self,' Shobhaa De delves into the themes of love, romance, and sensuality, encouraging readers to reconnect with their inner selves. She reflects on her past work with Khushwant Singh, noting that societal attitudes towards sensuality have not significantly evolved. De points out that aging and illness can strain relationships, yet society often stigmatizes the sensual desires of older individuals. She criticizes the notion that sex is merely a duty for women, highlighting the pressure they face to conform to societal expectations. The MeToo movement has raised awareness about consent, but De believes that fundamental attitudes have not changed. She also discusses the challenges women face in discussing their experiences with sexuality, emphasizing the need for open conversations. Ultimately, De expresses her passion for writing, viewing it as an essential outlet for emotional expression.